Restart or Refresh?
'We begin from where we left' I do not know why but people seem to think this is the most ideal form of reconnecting. So hear me out. Relations evolve with time as people grow and change. And during this relations may turn sour or get distant. These are the relations which need a 'reconnection'. Now, if we begin from where we left then wouldn't the sourness be the point of your reconnection? Or the awkwardness of the distant between you two? Instead of restarting from where we left why don't we focus on acknowledging that both have grown as persons and can maybe give the relation a new shot from a different perspective. My experience says that things can never be the way that they once were. Getting back with former close friends will be much easier this way. I don't want to continue with the disagreement which let to the slow demise of our friendship neither do I want to go back to the time we slowly fell apart and were not important in each others' ...